Thursday, July 06, 2006
Another Shattered Heart
04th July 2006 (Tuesday)
Another Shattered Heart in this world..... A call from a good friend informing that his 1yr 7mth relationship has came to an end. I know that i have to be there no matter what.... cos he's one friend whom i cannot lose cos he's one friend whom lent me a shoulder to cry on when i needed one, a friend who kept me company the whole day when i needed him on his anniversary day.....

Met up with him @East Coast Park, did not really talk much as im always a lousy talker (except for talking bullshit....) so the only thing i did was to lend him a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear.... I know even if i say anything at that time, nothing will go in, during that moment everything just revolves around the past, the times they spent together.... It won't be easy to let go, especially for the next 6mths or so, sleepless nights, crying, and feeling sorry for oneself..... but after awhile you will start to think whether is it worth it? You yourself crying and feeling sorry for yourself at night. Nobody will hear you cry.... Nobody will take pity on you..... the best part is, the other party might be out having fun, enjoying life.... so why waste your time on some one who doesn't even care? I know talk is cheap, no one will think this way in the initial stage of heart-break.... but eventually you will realised what i said make sense cos you will definately come to point when you truely wake up from the fairytale dream..... A person once told me this "Freedom comes when you learn to let go...." So when its time to let go, so be it......

A friend can be there when you need someone to talk to and to cry with, but at the end of the day. The only person who can help you is Yourself.... we are all grown ups, gotta stand up again after a fall..... it might leave a scar, but that will remind you of the pain that you've gone thru and you should be glad that you've made it thru..... And from this experience, it will definately make you a stronger person.....
posted by Patrick @ 8:59 PM  
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